When men reject us, because we simply are not what they are looking for, we console each other by saying, “It’s HIS loss”. Uh….sweetie, not if he didn’t want you to begin with. You can’t lose something you never wanted to keep in the first place. You just let it go.
So in reality, even though it’s painful at first, it’s not his loss, or yours.
It’s just that neither of you was God’s best for the other. How bout dat?